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Disordered Eating & Eating Disorders

What is it?

Disordered eating usually refers to the difficult ways we may behave and think about food and eating. It is related to but not always the same as an eating disorder. Disordered eating can cause harm and disturb daily life. 

Eating disorders are about more than just food and often require support from a health professional. They cause changes in the way we feel, think and behave towards food, eating, and to our body weight or shape. They can affect people of any gender, sexuality, race, culture, body shape, and background. Youth can recover from an eating disorder.

Youth with disordered eating or eating disorders may use different ways to control their weight. They may try dieting, fasting, using laxatives or other ways to reduce appetite. Some will exercise too much even when sick, injured or tired. These behaviours can cause serious health problems. They can affect a youth’s quality of life and even become life-threatening after intense or long-term use. The behaviours might seem like ways to control weight, but they are often not helpful. 

There can be challenging times for the parent and caregiver of a child with an eating disorder. You may feel overwhelmed and alone as you try to cope with supporting your child and figure out when and where to seek help. Treatment is key, but there are many things you can do to support your child at home, even after reaching out for help or while waiting to receive services.

Types of Eating Disorders

There are several types of eating disorders that have unique signs and symptoms. Click each type to learn more

How do I know?

Eating disorders look different for everyone. It’s important to remember that you cannot tell if someone has an eating disorder just by looking at them. Your child or youth may not agree there is a problem, but it's important to seek support if you have concerns with their eating.

Maybe you’re noticing that your child has become more focused on health or fitness. It can be hard to figure out if that is a good thing, or if it's becoming more of a problem. Below are some common signs and symptoms your child may be experiencing disordered eating or an eating disorder.

Children and youth with an eating disorder can have other mental health challenges and neurodevelopmental conditions at the same time. These can include:

Disordered eating and eating disorders can be common among the neurodivergent community. You can find out more information here.

What can be done?

Supporting your child when they have concerns with eating may seem overwhelming at times. There are resources and supports available for you and your child. Getting help early can give your child the best chance to recover and go on to have a happy, fulfilling life. The same is true if your child is diagnosed with another mental health disorder. If you have concerns about your child’s health, it is important to start the conversation. It is never too late, or too soon, to start.

A first step is to talk to a primary care provider about your concerns. Ask for a medical evaluation and assessment for eating-related concerns. It is important to work with care providers to find the right treatment, at the right time, for your child and family. You may find this guide helpful when meeting with healthcare professionals. 

There are a range of services available for youth with eating disorders. The health care team will work with parents or caregivers and the youth to find the best plan for your family. Programs include medical, psychiatric, nutritional, psychosocial and other areas of care. Most of the programs for children and youth include parents and other caregivers in the treatment. It can be very helpful for family to be involved in supporting recovery.

Medical Treatment 

  • Those with eating disorders need to see a physician or primary care provider in-person on a regular basis. The primary care provider can watch for and treat any physical problems that are a result of their illness. They will also check for signs of medical concerns where a youth may need to go to hospital.  

Medications

  • The treatment plan for eating disorders may includes medications. They are usually offered in addition to psychotherapy. Some medications are given on a short-term basis to support the distress with making changes to eating.

Nutritional Counselling

  • A key part of recovery is:
    • Improving nutrition
    • Developing healthy eating and exercise habits
    • Changing harmful behaviors
  • The treatment plan for eating disorders often includes support around nutrition and meal planning. This is part of the evidence-based therapies fore eating disorders. In some programs, dietitians who specialize in eating disorders may also meet with families. 

Outpatient and Inpatient Treatment

There are different options for levels of care for eating disorders treatment, based what on your healthcare providers recommend and the needs of your child and family. Some levels of care may be more appropriate for certain age groups (for example: older youth), while others may include focused supports for caregivers. 

The Stepped Care approach is one possibility for treatment. It is based on the needs of each child, and their caregivers. Treatment would start on the step that is expected to be the most effective. It’s important to note that the steps may not be in order for your child, and they may go back and forth between steps.

outpatient and inpatient treatment

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Outpatient services may include: 

  • Medical Appointments
  • Family-based treatment or other therapy approaches
  • A team of specialists working together 

If your child needs extra help or isn’t making the progress hoped for in outpatient care, there are other supportive options available. Healthcare providers will aim to provide the least intensive level of care for your child. You can find out more about these treatments at the BC Children’s Hospital website here

Where to from here?

  • If you are concerned about your child, the first step is to see a doctor or primary care provider. This may be a family doctor, a pediatrician or a doctor or nurse practitioner at a walk-in clinic. The health professional can conduct an in-person medical evaluation and work with you on next steps. You can use this screening tool to prepare for this appointment.Your understanding of your child is key to helping guide what support they need.
  • Find services in your area: https://keltymentalhealth.ca/locations

Looking for more information on this topic? Connect with a family peer support worker at the Kelty Centre to discover additional resources, learn more about support and treatment options, or just to find a listening ear.

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